family or friends??

hey hey... the topic (seriously different for the song "just a friend") is about being a friend to another person. just think for a while, how many friends do you have???

the term F.R.I.E.N.D here sometimes create havoc..
see, some of us tend to be to serius in a group, they somehow "dedicate" their soul to the group, just like the musketeers.

i have no offence to this kind of philosophy. but still, there are many question bout his kind of philosophy. i was thinking.. if u r really dedicating urself to the group, why are telling other bout the negative thins that they did? is this consider as an act of a friend... i dont think so...

another thing is, why are so obsess with the group...

they say" friends first" . To me.... " what the heck'

my priority is
1) family
2) me( physically)
3) me (education)
4) friends..

for me... family comes first... in every situation
i remembered my mom uttered these
" if u are having problem (in life) , i ( mom) will be the one to solve it, yes will be there for you ... but for how long?... if u fail in ur examination, who is gonna pay your fees? ur friends?? never.. i (mom) will...

then comes me... my life will be my second priority..
i am a kind of person who prefer to stay alone... just like a lone rider... i would not like to live in a situation where u have to pick either ur friends or ur family... this is because.. definately ill pick my family... this kind of situation will somethimes create tense between u n ur friends.
people will claim that we dont want to spend Quality time with them..thats the reason im a lone rider.

then comes friends..
this is my 3rd priority... but there are limits .. i prefer not to hang out till late night( for me .. late is 10pm and above)
i wont follow to OU... (thats to close to my house... better if i just come back home)
discussed with me first about the details...so i can make my decision.


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so.... family or friends?? its up to u